You have a child whose challenges set off a family dynamic that feels unbearable everyone ends up screaming, and you feel completely out of control. You worry you’re failing your child. You see them dialing out of life, losing confidence, and wonder if you’re losing yourself too. Normally, you’re the mother with all the answers, a problem-solving ninja, but right now, nothing seems to work, especially with a child who is suspected or diagnosed as neurodivergent, which could mean you are too.
We’ll champion you to become the parent you’ve been waiting to give yourself permission to be emotionally regulated in your response, strong enough to lead, and connected enough to guide your family. You’ll rediscover the freedom, joy, and confidence you once felt before family life got so serious. At last, you’ll reclaim your health, find time to start your own business or reignite your curiosity and love of life — all while maintaining a connected, thriving relationship with your family, so they can grow and flourish alongside you.
Five summers ago, we were exactly where you are now: proud of our brilliant neurodivergent (then undiagnosed) kids, confident in our success as mothers, yet unsure how to create the family life we dreamed of especially with significant neurodivergent challenges. Since then, we’ve trained extensively in all areas of health coaching and have become members of the Royal Society of Medicine. Toolkit is the result of this journey as professionals and parents, distilled into 4 easy-to-learn modules everything we’ve learned, tried and tested that has transformed our families lives.
Here’s what you’ll get in 4 transformative modules:
🧠 The Science of the Stress Response
Finally understand what’s happening in your brain — and your child’s — when emotions spike. Learn how the stress response hijacks thinking, fuels conflict, and why neurodivergent children are often more sensitive to stress. This isn’t abstract theory — it’s science you can use in real life to stop chaos in its tracks.
🔍 The Parts of You That Hijack Your Parenting
Identify the perfectionist, controller, pleaser, and guilty parts that hijack your reactions. Using IFS, you’ll learn to step back from these parts, understand their fears, and guide your internal dialogue — so you respond with clarity, confidence, and connection, even on your hardest days.
👫 Communication That Connects
Parenting isn’t about fixing, solving, or forcing compliance. Learn how to coach and hold space for your child’s emotions so they feel seen, safe, and understood — even in the middle of chaos. Master your internal and external dialogue so you stay grounded, speak with confidence, and guide your child without losing connection.
🌀 In-the-Moment Tools That Actually Work
Learn body-based strategies for real-life challenges: morning routines, homework battles, sibling fights, sensory meltdowns. Know exactly what to do — in the moment — without guilt or losing connection.
🎁 BONUS: A beautifully illustrated online children’s book to help your child understand emotions and process them safely and playfully. Hard copy optional.
We can’t wait to see you in there. With love Emma and Laura.