How your thoughts shape your energy and your child's anxiety.
Most mums don’t realise how much their thinking is shaping their child’s behaviour.
Not the obvious thoughts
but the quiet, automatic ones that run in the background.
The anxious ones:
“What if this gets worse?”
The harsh ones:
“I’m failing her.”
The pressurising ones:
“I should be coping better.”
These thoughts don’t stay in your head.
They activate your stress response,
they change the energy you bring into the room,
and your child feels that long before you say a word.
Your child doesn’t respond to your explanations.
They respond to your energy.
And your energy is shaped by the thoughts you’re believing often without realising it.
Recognise changes that.
Hi, I’m Laura.
When my daughter was seven, everything felt fragile: school refusal, meltdowns, overwhelm.
We tried therapy, behaviour strategies, all the recommended routes  helpful, but never enough.
The shift happened when I realised this:
My daughter wasn’t just reacting to the situation she was reacting to me.
My thoughts. My tension. My fear. My pace. My energy.
Once I began changing the way I thought about situations and the energy those thoughts createdÂ
everything changed.
Recognise teaches you the same process.
What Recognise Gives You
Inside this programme, you’ll learn:
• How your thoughts quietly activate fear energy or love energy in your body
• Why your child responds to your stress response, not your words
• How everyday thoughts create physical stress responses that your child feels immediately
• How your internal stories shape the energy you bring into the room
• Why behaviour doesn’t change first, energy does
• How to recognise fear-based interpretations in the moment and shift them
• How “manifestation” actually works at a neurobiological level (thought → body → energy → relationship)
• How small, intentional shifts in thought and body create calm, safety, and connection for your child
This isn’t about positive thinking.
It’s about understanding the link between thought → energy → behaviour.
Small changes there make a huge difference.
What You Get
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MODULE 1 — Your thoughts are not facts (so why are you believing them)
• Why your thoughts feel so real
• How thoughts trigger the stress response
• How to catch and interrupt thinking traps before they take over
MODULE 2 — The energy you bring
• How your biology responds to your internal stories
• How your energy shapes your child's anxiety
• How to shift from fear energy to calm, connected energy in real moments
MODULE 3 — The power of manifestation
• Anxious behaviour is created by manifesting what we don't want
• How fear-based manifestation keeps stress patterns repeating
• How to intentionally practise leadership through manifestationÂ
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PLUS: The 13 Thinking Traps PDF
Your guide to the cognitive patterns that quietly trigger your stress response, with real parenting examples and prompts to help you shift them.
AND:
• Lifetime access
• Short, accessible lessons
• Tools and a workbook to support your learning
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