Self Led

This version is for you if you want to absorb the method, start applying it at home, and go at your own speed without live coaching support.

For parents of emotionally intense or sensitive kids who are ready to lead with calm — not just cope through the chaos at home.

What if their outbursts and overwhelm aren’t the real issue?

What if your child isn’t difficult they just don’t feel safe yet?

You know what it looks like:

They refuse school, even though they’re smart.
They go from 0 to 100 in seconds because their brother got their dinner first.
You can’t predict their reactions so your whole family walks on eggshells.

No one’s relaxed.
Everyone’s on edge.
And under it all, a quiet question begins to grow:

“Why me?”
“Why is this so hard?”
“Why can’t I get this right?”

You’ve done what good parents do:
Tried the holistic therapies.
Booked the counsellors.
Even explored different assessments to understand what might be going on.

And maybe it helps a little.
But not enough to feel like your home is safe again.
Not enough to stop the cycle of devastation.

What if the very help they needed was much closer to home?

What if they needed to feel safe with you — and your body doesn’t feel safe yet?

Hi, I’m Laura.

My daughter was where your child is now.

At the age of 7, she started to refuse school.
She bounced between big emotions and deep overwhelm that shaped our whole household.
Her deeply sensitive body was masked by defense.

We tried everything:
Holistic therapies.
Counselling.
Even looked into what might be going on neurologically.

It helped… a bit. But not for long.

Then one day, I asked a question that changed everything:

Was she really the one who needed fixing? Or were we missing something deeper?

That was the moment I stopped outsourcing the fix.

I stopped treating her as the problem and started looking at what I was bringing to the table.

How can I ask my 7-year-old to hold it together when I can’t?
How could I expect her to feel safe when I didn’t?
How was I only just realizing this?

This isn’t about blame. You’re a great parent.

It’s just that no one has shown you how to parent a deeply sensitive child, as a deeply sensitive parent.

Your child needs to feel safe in a different way.

And we weren’t taught this as kids.

When I stopped resisting her big emotions, she didn’t need them as much.
Her body changed in response to mine changing.
And now, at 14, she thrives.

That’s what we teach inside The Leadership Method.

We’ve taken everything we’ve trained in, lived through, and shared with hundreds of clients into a methodology to short-circuit your pain and start rewiring your connection from the inside out.

🧠 Module 1: Biology, Not Behaviour
Understand your child’s reactions (and your own) through the lens of the nervous system — not blame or willpower. We show you how to stop personalising their rage or anxiety and start focusing on your own emotional regulation first.

🎯 Module 2: Dare to Lead
Learn how to lead with calm authority, not control. We teach you how to go first, even when it’s hard, so your child doesn't have to carry the emotional weight of the room.

🗣 Module 3: Communicate Like a Coach
Speak in a way that lowers the stress response. This isn’t about saying the right thing, it’s about tone, presence, and building safety through every interaction.

🧍‍♀️ Module 4: The Body First
Hands-on tools to regulate your body's stress response in real time and support your child’s through co-regulation.

🌀 Module 5: The ANCHOR Framework
Our in-the-moment method to help you stay with what’s happening, even when things go pear shaped.

What’s Included:

✔ Online Course Platform
A complete training pathway to help you shift your child’s patterns by changing your body's stress response. Includes a workbook to document your journey.

✔ Lifetime access
So you can return whenever things feel hard again.

✔ Go At Your Own Pace
Self-paced, digestible, and designed to meet you where you’re at, without overwhelm.