Most parenting strategies fail because they target behaviour. This workshop targets the mechanism underneath it.
In our two hour live and interactive workshop you will understand exactly why you and your child keep locking into the same dynamic, why your stress response takes you there automatically, and how to step out of it. Live, interactive, real scenarios from your actual week.
This is the science of why nothing has worked yet and what actually changes it.
What our mums are saying
"I cannot thank you both enough for the work you put into creating Thursday's workshop. So informative - I love your style, your approach and method. Sitting around the table with a group of mums, all sharing stories almost identical to my own, was an experience I'd never had before. The balance of both was brilliant. We have a long road ahead but I feel empowered to continue drawing on knowledge and practice, practice practice. It's never going to be perfect."
" Hey...I just wanted to say thank you so much for such a wonderful workshop and for unlocking something that is already making a difference. Today I saw progress and exactly as your said , it was by changing me."
"Laura is amazing. You both are doing such good work. I am trying to understand Karpman drama triangle better and this session really helped."
What you will learn
- How your emotional programming is fuelling the drama triangle
- What role you play and why your stress response goes there automatically
- What role you are casting your child in and why they keep playing it
- Why this creates emotional codependency that neither of you can think your way out of
- How you actually step out of it
Karpman's Drama Triangle maps exactly how two people lock together and keep each other stuck. It is not a parenting theory. It is a biological mechanism and once you can see it running, you cannot unsee it.
What you will do
You will take something live, a specific scenario from this week, and map it.
- Which role are you in
- Which role is your child in
- Can you see how they are locked together
Then we work together to figure out what you need to do to exit the drama.
What you will leave with
- Your default role on the triangle and why your body goes there
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How to shift your emotional state in the moment so that your child’s behaviour changes.
The pattern you identify in this session has been running for years. Probably decades. You learned these roles long before your child arrived. What your child does is activate them. Understanding that distinction is the beginning of stepping out.
This is for you if
- You can only feel okay when your child feels okay
- You are exhausted by the same loop repeating and nothing shifts it
- You have tried the strategies, read the books, done the research and still end up in the same place
- You are ready to understand the mechanism, not just survive the next explosion
This is not for you if
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You are looking for quick fixes to control behaviour
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You want to change your child without looking at your own behaviour
